choices

Jenny G told G man and me some astounding information about a girl we know. We saw with our own eyes that the information was true.I feel bad for her parents and brothers. Although her father always was hinkey and had a small amount of creepiness around the edges of his personality. Nothing I could define, just an intuition I kept getting from him.

The choice this young girl of 20 has made is not a choice I would make and know my daughter never ever considered. I can't imagine why she chose the lifestyle she is currently living, and wonder if her parents still include her in their life. She is a beautiful girl, was a cheerleader in school and very shy.

Her mom and dad were on the same community youth sport parent committees as G man and me. That is how we know them. Both of them were smokers and usually smelled of alcohol at the committee meetings and sport events. They tried to be warm and friendly, but the smoking was the number one reason I could not become a friend to them. The drinking did not do much for developing a friendship either. I am not a snob or tea totaler by any means. But I know better then to smoke on school grounds and to not bring beer to a youth football game or show up late to committee meetings stinking of booze.

I do not know if her home life "caused" her to choose this particular path in life or maybe her brain is just wired so that what she does is normal, like people who become writers, computer geeks, lawyers or doctors. Because I have never known anyone or been exposed to her job on a professional level I feel sad, actually embarrassed for her and her family. I can not explain why I feel that way. Porn is not a bad thing as far as I am concerned. I think it should be mainstream and regulated. But society has not allowed porn to be an acceptable form of employment or mainstream. How society views porn is another post for the future. Perhaps I am embarrassed because I know her, because in my mind she is till the shy cheerleader from a few years ago.

This girl's parents must know what their daughter is doing. I wonder if they have embraced her career choice? She obviously has gotten over her shyness as well.